The true nature of the sexes is the opportunity to, for lack of a better word, ‘appreciate’ the other’s sex. Not ‘to be’ the other’s sex but ‘appreciate’ it in a holistic relationship. All the confusion is a consequence of premeditated social programming. Look at the source of that psychological programming and you will find the ‘culprit’. As far as Hollywood goes – it’s all about ‘big bucks’ fantasy entertainment. Better to get back to nature! Explore the natural wilderness and find yourself ‘at home’ there.